52 points by vintagedave 8 hours ago | 22 comments
arjie 19 minutes ago
I think the better model is to just block everyone who isn't useful to communicate with. For instance the top of this HN page reads (for me): 68 comments | 11 hidden | 3 blocked

The hidden comments are from people in the Top 1000 by word count (who I usually don't want to hear from but if there is not much content I might click to toggle). The blocked are people I've seen argue with others in a useless way because they don't understand them or because they're just re-litigating or whatever (which I cannot toggle). I think it would be cool if people all published their blocklists and I'd pull from those I trust. Sometimes I open HN on my phone through the browser and I'm baffled by all these responses I got which are useless.

I'm surprised by how much more high quality comment threads are now to me and I frequently find that I want to respond to everyone. It's like in old-school mailing lists or forums where you were having a conversation so the other people are worth talking to.

Attention is precious and I wouldn't want to waste it on boring things. And it goes both ways. I communicate incompletely and there are people out there who get what I'm saying and there are people who need me to be more explicit. I would prefer that the latter and people who find me boring just block me.

NickHodges0702 1 minute ago
Interesting notion.

One of the long term ideas is that people could earn some type of "Rhetoric Score" or something that would factor in to their ability to comment. Maybe there would be a comment system that would enable you to say "I don't want interact with anyone that has a <rhetoric score> less than XXXX".

klntsky 1 minute ago
How do you score toxicity? Do you have a list of criteria or just let the LLM hallucinate a number out of thin air?
earthnail 49 minutes ago
I tried it as well with a contrarian view on UBI. I think the UBI one is a great test case. If you’re against the idea you will likely argue that it is idealistic and that in the real world it would create bad incentives.

So basically you end up arguing for a darker, more pessimistic world view, and that tends to get flagged very quickly by the tool right now. I think you should fix that. It’s a mistake in modern discussions to be overly positive; HN feels real because people can leave pretty harsh critiques. It just has to be well argued. Don’t raise the bar for well-argued too high though, because nobody’s perfect.

Anyway, I love the idea and really hope you’ll succeed. Hope my feedback has been somewhat helpful.

NickHodges0702 46 minutes ago
Yes, thanks very much! I appreciate your support very much.

You make a good point -- and that is exactly the kind of thing we are trying to do, i.e. enable a good-faith, but strongly disagreeing, discussion on something like UBI.

badc0ffee 1 hour ago
This thing seems to be more about enforcing a political PoV than about avoiding logical fallacies.

All my attempts to comment on the UBI article (and not supporting UBI) said my comment was a dogwhistle, and/or had an overly negative tone. This topic, of all things, is absolutely worthy to challenge and debate.

Using this would have the effect of creating an echo chamber, where people who stay never benefit from having their ideas challenged.

vintagedave 1 hour ago
Thankyou — I’d love to hear what you wrote, if you wouldn’t mind sharing?

We’ve tried to aim it not to enforce any specific view — that’s a design goal — but focus on how it will feel to the other person.

Also things like logical fallacies or other non-emotional flaws in comments (there’s a toxicity metric for example, or dogwhistles).

An echo chamber is the exact opposite of what we want. There are too many already. What we hope for is guided communication so different views _can_ be expressed.

NickHodges0702 1 hour ago
If that is happening, that is a huge problem. We'll look at that right away.

We specifically don't want that to be the case. We want to encourage healthy, productive debate.

We may have the "dog-whistle" stuff over tuned.

john_strinlai 1 hour ago
the dog whistle tuning is absolutely over the top in its default setting.
vintagedave 1 hour ago
Just turned it way down. I hope you find it better now!
NickHodges0702 59 minutes ago
Thanks, I agree. We dialed it way down.
esperent 1 hour ago
Can you give some examples of comments you made which you feel were reasonable but got flagged?
coleworld45 1 hour ago
I wrote "Obama sucks" and got Dogwhistle, Low Score, Low Effort, Objectionable Phrases, and Negative Tone.

I wrote "Trump sucks" and got Low Score, Low Effort, Negative Tone.

Definitely a double standard baked in

ceejayoz 1 hour ago
Double standard, or legitimate difference? Maybe Trump empirically sucks more?

(This is the sort of debate I really don't think tooling can fix.)

coleworld45 1 hour ago
Ignoring what is hopefully sarcasm on the empirical part, it's a double standard because it assumes that saying Obama sucks must be a dogwhistle and tied to undertones of racism.

"Dogwhistle

The phrase "Obama sucks" can be interpreted as more than just a simple critique of a political figure; it has been used to express racist sentiments by implying that a Black president is less capable or worthy of respect. This reinforces harmful stereotypes and can contribute to a broader culture of disrespect and division."

NickHodges0702 1 hour ago
I would think/hope that both of those comments would be flagged with even a small amount of moderation set.

Avoiding that kind of comment is exactly what we are trying to do, actually.

coleworld45 57 minutes ago
Yes I agree, but the problem I'm pointing out is that in a phrase as simple as "X person sucks" your system flagged one as implicitly racist because the person being criticized was black.

Nothing in "Obama sucks" implied any kind of racism. If it's so baked in that with a simple phrase like that it reaches for dogwhistles, how can anyone trust the objectivity of this?

NickHodges0702 49 minutes ago
I totally agree -- just saying "Obama sucks" shouldn't have racism become part of the equation. Excellent point that we'll stew on and try to make better.
NickHodges0702 52 minutes ago
Yep, I agree -- it is a double standard... but......

Very sensitive topic. We'll think hard on how to handle things like that.

ceejayoz 1 hour ago
> Ignoring what is hopefully sarcasm on the empirical part…

I mean, in my opinion, Trump empirically sucks. Opinion polling backs me up! Should the model consider that more people consider one or the other to suck? Or should it ignore factual information to spare feelings? Which approach is more respectful to fellow commenters and the website owner?

(See also: X considering "cisgender" a slur. There's no shared reality on a lot of these things; trying to construct one gets deeply difficult.)

coleworld45 1 hour ago
In other opinion polls they back up that he doesn't suck. Either way who cares? That's not what the app is supposed to be about if it's teaching/correcting you how to argue/debate better.

You completely ignored the whole point of what I said, which is that even in a simple statement like "This person sucks" it added its own implicit connotations, namely that disliking someone who happens to be black is implicit racism. Imagine trying to learn how to really argue with that kind of teacher.

ceejayoz 58 minutes ago
I'm really expanding on your point - that two humans can't even agree here. The AI probably has even less chance of resolving the multi-factorial scenario we're in.
Supermancho 0 minutes ago
AFAICT, Respectify is trying to address improvements via leveraged grammar using minimal context. Dis/agreement is incidental.

eg

* Noun1 is great.

* Noun2 is great.

Ideally would result in equal outcomes.

throwaway13337 1 hour ago
I was hoping 'respectify' could mean respect for the users.

This is a very important problem space. Maybe the most important today - we desprately need a digital third place that isn't awful. But I think these attempts are misled.

The core issue seems to be that we want our communities to be infinite. Why? Well, because there is currently no way to solve the community discoverability problem without being the massive thing. But that is the issue to solve.

We need a lot of Dunbar's number sized communities. Those communities allow for 'skin in the game' where reputation matters. And maybe a fractal sort of way for those communities to share between them.

The problem is in the discoverability and in a gate keeping that is porous enough to give people a chance.

Solve that, and you solve the the third place problem we have currently. I don't have a solution but I wish I did.

Infinite communities are fundamentally what causes the tribalism (ironically), the loneliness, and the promotion of rage.

No one wants to be forced to argue correctly. Forcing people into a way to think via software is fundamentally authoritarian and sad.

NickHodges0702 1 hour ago
Thoughtful comment, thanks. I appreciate it.

The notion of "Limit the community to the Dunbar number" is a fascinating idea. I guess "infinite" isn't going to quite work. Keen observation.

We tried very hard to not "force" anyone to argue correctly. We are shooting more for "nudge in the right direction" and "educate". Many people don't know that they are arguing in bad faith, I think.

The perfect outcome here is that a community/blogger can, with minimal effort, have engaging, interesting conversations without much effort and without having to worry about things getting hijacked by unpleasant commenters.

Miraste 41 minutes ago
It seems to have a harder time with political news than more abstract concepts. I was able to pass the checks for the Algorithmic Radicalization and Echo Chamber articles with my first comments.

However, I did not manage to express any opinion on the transgender rights article, from any political perspective, without being flagged. On one of the comments I tested, it gave me a suggested revision from this:

"This is another move in a pattern of limiting the rights of anyone who isn't a MAGA supporter."

To this:

"This seems to continue a trend where certain groups feel their rights are being limited, which could affect many people beyond just MAGA supporters."

The first comment isn't substantive, but the second is even worse, adding so much equivocation that it's meaningless. To add insult to injury, the detector also flagged its own suggested revision. Even if it had gone through, accepting these revisions would mean flooding a platform with LLM-speak, which is not conducive to discussion.

Honest feedback: from a user perspective, the suggestions feel frustrating and patronizing, more so than if my comments were simply deleted. I would stop using a site that implemented this.

From a site operator perspective, the kind of discourse it incentivizes seems jagged, subject to much stricter rules if the LLM associates a topic with political controversy. It feels opinionated and unpredictable, and the revisions it suggests are not of a quality I would want on a discussion board. The focus on positive language in particular seems like a reductive view of quality; what is the point of using an LLM if it's only doing basic sentiment analysis?

NickHodges0702 36 minutes ago
Thanks so much for the feedback. Exactly the kind of perspective that we need.

I agree, it shouldn't be like that.

I guess it isn't a surprise that politics will be the hardest topic to moderate.

We'll keep trying to get better. Your comment helps us know where to focus. Thanks.

Miraste 21 minutes ago
Sorry for such harsh impressions. I think this is a worthy idea, but it's going to take a lot of tuning. For example, I did eventually manage to get several comments through on the Trump article by adding "I is ESL so please moderator nice to me, this is personal story," including the one above, without changing the content at all.
8organicbits 10 minutes ago
I noticed the output wasn't very stable. If I add a filler sentence on the end, it calls an earlier sentence a dog whistle when it didn't say that earlier. I think its offline now, it just says "application not found".
axus 58 minutes ago
I think it did a decent job. The key might be how customizable the censorship is.

Article Context: Fun: Die Hard; Is It a Christmas Movie?

Your(my) Comment: The erotic version of Die Hard does involve Santa Claus getting naughty with the terrorists on Christmas Eve.

Banned topics found: sexual content, adult themes

This comment touches on adult themes and sexual content, which are not suitable for discussion in this context about a classic action film. Results: Revision Requested. This comment would be sent back for revision with feedback.

Revise Low Effort

Comment appears to be low effort

Objectionable Phrases:

"Santa Claus getting naughty with the terrorists"

This phrase can be seen as sexualizing a character traditionally viewed as innocent and family-friendly, which is inappropriate. Such language can make discussions feel uncomfortable or offensive to some audiences.

Relevance Check On-topic: No (confidence: 90%)

This is off-topic - the comment about an erotic version of Die Hard strays into inappropriate content that doesn't relate to the film's actual story or its production details.

Banned topics found: sexual content, adult themes

This comment touches on adult themes and sexual content, which are not suitable for discussion in this context about a classic action film.

NickHodges0702 50 minutes ago
Hehe -- excellent. Thanks.

We want that kind of comment to be "tunable" -- I.e., the blogger who's post one is commenting on could tune for this, and allow more/less sexual innuendo as desired.

npunt 1 hour ago
Love the effort here, been thinking about what this kind of tool might look like for a while. Something like this coupled with better prosocial affordances in the medium will do a lot to improve discourse online. I wrote up one a while back [1] but things like that are only a small part of a much bigger picture.

The overall problem needs to be tackled from all angles - poster pre-post self-awareness (like respecify but shown to users before posting), reader affordances to reflect back to poster their behavior (and determine if things may be appropriate in context vs just a universal 'dont say mean words'), after-post poster tools to catch mistakes (like above), platform capabilities like respectify that define rules of play and foster a enjoyable social environment that let us play infinite games, and a broader social context that determine the values that drive all of these.

[1] https://nickpunt.com/blog/deescalating-social-media/

NickHodges0702 57 minutes ago
I'm grateful for the thoughtful feedback, thanks.

Your blog post will be read. ;-)

dogclaw 5 minutes ago
pricing page failed - Plans error: fetch failed
ceejayoz 1 hour ago
The sample prompt I was given was "Is Die Hard a Christmas movie?"

"Of course it is!" got an 80% certainty "off-topic" mark.

When I elaborated that it occurs at a Christmas party, it said this:

"Dogwhistles detected (confidence 80%): This comment seems innocuous, but the phrasing 'Christmas party' may be an underhanded reference to Christian themes, especially among discussions that might dismiss or attack secular or diverse holiday celebrations. This kind of language can subtly imply exclusion or preference for Christian traditions over others, which can marginalize those who celebrate different traditions."

Not a great first experience.

I've seen the trend on Facebook/Instagram to say "unalived" instead of "killed" or "cupcakes" instead of "vaccines" and suspect humans are long gonna be cleverer than these sorts of content filtering attempts, with language getting deeply weird as a side-effect.

edit: I would also note that it says "Referring to others as 'horrible people' is disrespectful and diminishes the possibility of a respectful discussion. It positions certain individuals as entirely negative, which can alienate others and shut down dialogue.", if I feed it your post, too.

netsharc 1 hour ago
AI enhanced language monitor, what a double plus good improvement for society!
vintagedave 1 hour ago
I get this.

There’s a line on our doc page:

> Respectify is not an engine for monoculture of thought, but in fact intends to assist in the opposite while encouraging in healthy interaction along the way.

We don’t want to monitor or enforce saying specific things. We want people to be able to speak, but understand how others will hear them.

All those times people talk past each other. Or are rude but don’t realise it. Or are rude but don’t care (and should because it’s a human on the other end.) Or the worse people who intentionally say something awful and… just maybe can learn a bit about what they’re saying.

I get your fear. I think I’ve seen AI used for bad quite a bit. I hope, given the tech isn’t going away, we can use it to make things a bit better. That’s the goal.

NickHodges0702 1 hour ago
Nick Hodges here -- one of the developers.

I get that objection, and we are certainly very uninterested in that becoming the norm. The idea, of course, is to try to prevent comments that we want prevented and that aren't helpful.

Different bloggers and different communities are going to define that differently. That is why we are making a good-faith effort at allowing sites/people/groups to tweak this as desired.

Thank for your feedback.

tclancy 1 hour ago
Revision Requested This comment would be sent back for revision with feedback.
NickHodges0702 1 hour ago
Hey, Nick Hodges here, one of the builders of this.

First, Thanks so much for trying this out and giving us feedback.

Have you tried adjusting the settings on the left side? For instance, reducing or eliminating dog whistle checks?

esperent 1 hour ago
The whole point of using AI in this situation is context. So if the initial conversation is about a "Christmas movie" and someone uses the phrase "Christmas party" in a reply and gets flagged for Christian dogswhistle propaganda, that's a sign the system isn't working - even with the dogswhistle setting turned up.
ceejayoz 1 hour ago
> For instance, reducing or eliminating dog whistle checks?

I'm sure that'll help, but I'd imagine it's not an option available to me as a commenter on a real website using your tool?

NickHodges0702 1 hour ago
No, but it would help us know the defaults better......

Thanks again for trying it. Really grateful.

NickHodges0702 1 hour ago
...but yeah, it 100% shouldn't flag "Christmas Movie" unless specifically told to.

Same for the phrase "Horrible people" -- that isn't necessarily in and of itself a bad thing to say.

thelock85 1 hour ago
Seems like you need this when you don't have agency to go find your preferred online group(s) which might be tied to larger personal challenges in healthy communication and productive conflict. I don't know how tech solves that problem. The broad use case here would just create a new "respectified" category where members (assuming they have the attention span to be guided on comments) try to conform. I suppose that could be helpful in hyper-local or team-level contexts where there is a shared interest to conform around.
NickHodges0702 59 minutes ago
Our "target market" right now is a blogger that would like to turn on comments, but has turned them off because they get toxic really quickly.
reconnecting 1 hour ago
What I've seen, the difference between spam detected or not is https://www before the domain name.

Here is an example of successful passing of all checks:

> Published This comment passes all checks and would be published.

Score: 5/5 | Not spam | On-topic: Yes | No dogwhistles detected (confidence: 100%)

Can confirm. We hit this exact issue running tirreno www.tirreno.com (open-source fraud detection) on Windows ARM — libraries were auto-selecting AVX2 through emulation and batch scoring was measurably slower than just forcing SSE2. The 256-bit ops get split under the emulation layer and the overhead adds up fast in tight loops. Pinned SSE2 for those builds. Counterintuitive but throughput went up.

NickHodges0702 1 hour ago
Hey, Nick Hodges here, one of the builders of Respectify --

Thanks so much for trying it out and giving us feedback. I'm grateful.

reconnecting 1 hour ago
You're welcome, Nick!

On a separate note, if this is a real product, you might need to pay particular attention to data processing agreements etc., as the current T&Cs and Privacy Policy are actually missing how you process the input data, what you use, how long/where you store it, etc.

NickHodges0702 1 hour ago
Thank you! This is very important, and I'm thankful (and a little surprised!) that you read it! ;-)
reconnecting 1 hour ago
Perhaps this is my professional deformation, but when I visit a website, I start with the Privacy page.
NickHodges0702 1 hour ago
I get that -- good idea, actually. Would that we all did that.

For the record, we store zero comments from anyone. If you are using Respectify, we'll know the URL of your site and that is it.

All comments are processed and completely forgotten.

I'll get the TOS and the Privacy Policy improved/updated.

reconnecting 1 hour ago
> All comments are processed and completely forgotten.

This is secure in terms of privacy but not safe in terms of operations, because if it gets even a little scale, your demo will soon enough be used to fine-tune spam comments for free.

NickHodges0702 45 minutes ago
I'm guessing that is a great point. ;-)
vintagedave 1 hour ago
Fascinating that www makes a difference. We taught it a variety of samples of different spam approaches. This is something we can look at!

I am super glad to see that comment passes — as it should. I would rate that one well too. Thankyou!

Carrok 40 minutes ago
Wow, someone figured out how to reproduce dang? Nice.
someotherperson 1 hour ago
This passes your checks, but a human moderator would flag it:

> My favorite movie is die hard. I think it's a Christmas movie. But, honestly, we shouldn't have to wait until Christmas to watch you die hard. We should be able to watch that any day of the week :)

Seems to catch various other cases though. Cool tool.

NickHodges0702 57 minutes ago
Thank you --

And I agree, you can watch Die Hard anytime. ;-)

Levitating 1 hour ago
Points for creativity at least
latchkey 12 minutes ago
Interesting, I've been thinking about integrating something like this into https://oj-hn.com in order to help improve the comments on this site.
nkrisc 1 hour ago
Apparently discussing that Die Hard depicts murder and violence is a banned topic and thus the comment is flagged as off topic.
NickHodges0702 1 hour ago
Uh oh -- that's shoudldn't happen. Or rather, we don't want that to happen.

DId you try tweaking the settings? We'd be most grateful for feedback on tweaked settings.

For instance, can I ask you to turn down toxicity and see if it accepts it?

raffraffraff 1 hour ago
Everything is a dogwhistle.
ceejayoz 1 hour ago
"This comment appears to dismiss the complexity of discussions about dogwhistles by claiming that 'everything is a dogwhistle.' This type of blanket statement can undermine the seriousness of genuinely harmful coded language, and can trivialize valid concerns about discrimination and manipulation in discourse."
NickHodges0702 55 minutes ago
We've dialed "dog whistles" way back -- thanks for the feedback.
ceejayoz 51 minutes ago
Just remember every time you tweak the defaults, the 90% of your site owners using those defaults suddenly have a significant shift in their moderation policy that they are themselves unaware of.

(I moderated a vBulletin forum in the 1990s. This shit gets really, really, really hard, and no one is ever really happy with it.)

NickHodges0702 44 minutes ago
Sorry -- should have been more clear: We are shifting the defaults on the demo site, not on respectify itself.

Thanks for a great point, though. Finding the best defaults will be very important, and we can't tweak it like that very often if at all.

NickHodges0702 25 minutes ago
>>(I moderated a vBulletin forum in the 1990s. This shit gets really, really, really hard, and no one is ever really happy with it.<<

I feel that. I used to moderate the Object Pascal Compuserve forum. That was hard enough!

ceejayoz 18 minutes ago
This one was for gamers.

I’m pretty sure we created a few budding lawyers out of some high schoolers.

onion2k 1 hour ago
Low-effort posts

Chuckles. I'm in danger.

NickHodges0702 1 hour ago
LOL -- aren't we all! ;-)
darqis 1 hour ago
Definitely needed, especially in the Fediverse. Holy crap the edgelords there or on Facebook. You comment something neutral, skeptical, response is either straight insults or completely disagreement and then insults, ad hominem or strawman/gaslighting.

Yesterday I dared to write I like X now, it's clean of all the edgelords who went to Bluesky or the Fediverse. Cancel culture on Twitter was over the top. Reaponse, Cancel Culture doesn't exist. My response, it absolutely does. His response, No it doesn't you Nazi something something or other. Err, what?

X has the most up to date information for tech circles.

People on BS mostly repost and rage about posts on X. Fediverse are the different kind of refugees. Mastodon has critical design flaws. It's not a future proof system. And Cancel culture is absurd. BTW 5 people reported me for saying that Cancel culture absolutely exists, all from the same instance. Lol. The hypocrisy is unreal.

In any case, I think people forgot or never learned how to respectfully disagree and have a conversation with people who don't agree with them.

Something like this is direly needed.

NickHodges0702 1 hour ago
Hey, thanks so much for the feedback. We agree. ;-)

One of our goals is to just make the edgelords and trolls go away -- if they want to comment, they have to be nice. If they can't be nice, they can't comment (A gross over-simplification, but you get the idea.....)

One feature we are going to add is a "Here's your feedback, but press here to post anyway" as an option for users to have. At teh very least, make someone stop and think about what they are saying.

ceejayoz 1 hour ago
"The comment mentions 'Cancel Culture' and uses terms like 'edgelords' and 'Nazi' in a context that dismisses and trivializes serious issues. This reflects a trend in discussions that equates legitimate critiques of harmful behaviors with extreme labels, undermining constructive dialogue and signaling acceptance of toxic rhetoric."

"Using phrases like 'Holy crap the edgelords' can come off as dismissive and disrespectful towards a group of people. It’s better to express concerns about behaviors or actions instead of labeling individuals harshly."

"Describing cancel culture as 'over the top' expresses a strong negative opinion without offering specific reasoning. It’s more effective to explain what aspects seem excessive to help others understand your perspective."

"Using phrases like 'the hypocrisy is unreal' can come across as dismissive and sarcastic, which may alienate others from the discussion. It’s beneficial to explain what seems hypocritical instead of making broad statements."

(I picked the "why it's hard to escape an echo chamber" context option, for full disclosure.)

NickHodges0702 1 hour ago
Thanks so much. This is like gold to us.

The defaults we have set are clearly too high. That comment should be exactly what we should approve. Thanks for trying it.

ceejayoz 1 hour ago
So this is a good illustration of the problem.

If it were my site, "I like X now" would be a red flag.

I don't think you're gonna AI your way out of this part of things for some time, and it really is the core challenge to content moderation; it's heavily opinion and circumstance based, in a way current models really struggle with.

NickHodges0702 54 minutes ago
I appreciate the comments, thanks.

Well, we are going to give it a try!

Thanks again...

ceejayoz 47 minutes ago
I genuinely wish you luck. It's a worthy goal.

(lol, this got "Comment appears to be low effort". Ouch!)

1 hour ago
PeterWhittaker 5 minutes ago
Huh. Commented upon echo chambers and cults and was told "Request failed: fetch failed". Tried a private session as well, just in case my previous UBI comments had polluted things, but no love. Was it the length? FWIW, here's my comment....

A great many words surround what seem to me to be red herring arguments and arbitrary definitions and groupings, with the word cult appearing in the article precisely 8 times without any justification for the statement in the headline. Moreover, the sentence "We can pop an epistemic bubble simply by exposing its members to the information and arguments that they’ve missed" seems woefully naive: By the definition included in the article, traditional views re the roles of women or blacks in society would be epistemic bubbles and not echo chambers, and women's right were not advanced and slavery not eliminated through the bringing of facts, but through long, arduous moral struggles to convince at least a majority that women and blacks merited the same rights as men and whites.

But it liked my comment on UBI and potential cost reductions through elimination of fraud detection and mitigation, so obviously it does things well. 1/2 /s? :->